HASIF DAN FARA: THINGS TO DO LIST...

Things that have made me a well-rounded, experienced woman ready for a lifetime commitment to another person. After the jump, 20 things every woman should cross off her list before getting married.

Live by herself for at least a year.
Live with someone else for at least a year.
Recover from a broken heart.
Have a vacation fling.
Take a road-trip with a group of girlfriends.
Relish sleeping in a queen-sized bed by herself.
Get her finances in order.
Learn to love her body.
Have sex with at least one person she’d never want to marry (or introduce to mom).
Find reliable birth control.
Pay off as much credit card debt and student loans as possible.
Spend way too much on a something frivolous.
Exorcise all past relationship demons.
Travel somewhere exotic.
Establish a strong circle of friends.
Forgive her parents for not being perfect.
Have at least one night she can’t quite remember.
Experience some really bad first dates.
Find hobbies that fulfill her.
Celebrate her 25th birthday.

(Source:http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-20-things-every-woman-should-do-before-she-gets-married/)

10 Things to Do Before You Get Married:

Enjoy life being a single.
If possible do the things you have always wanted to do as life may be different when you are married. Chances are you will have more responsibilities. Less chances to risk your life over things that may have an effect on your responsibility – your family.
Save a lot of money. Prepare and save up for your wedding. Getting married these days is much more expensive. So if you have a dream wedding in mind. Save up for it. Your budget will sometimes be less than the actual. Prices go u even for a matter of days, weeks or months. What you budgeted today may be far lot cheaper than when you pay for it later.
Attend a married life seminar particularly for those who already have plans and have set a date.
Get to know your partner and better half better.
Open up whatever secrets ou have that you think will affect your married life later on. I would always appreciate knowing the facts now and take my chances rather than be deceived and being lied to.
Take a trip on your own or with your boyfriend or girlfriend. You would always look back to it together ad sometimes you would say when you are already married that it was good that you have experienced that already. Just make sure you have all the complete travel supplies with you!
Be financially, psychologically, emotionally prepared. Getting married is not just preparing for the wedding day.The longest preparation you should focus on and prepare is the married life after the most exciting, important and memorable wedding day of your life.
Be prepared about the changes that you might encounter and adjustments that you have to make living with the person you thought you love este you really love and will love for the rest of your life on earth. We’re not talking of 6 months or 1 year here. We are talking of a lifetime ahead girls and guys!
Think over and over again if the person is the right one for you and also if you are the right one for that person. If there are any doubts then you must take a responsible decision of you really wanna take the plunge into an eternity of happiness, hope, love and life or – misery. But it is all a matter of how we see life!